Why do we give. Is it because it makes up happy to give, or is it because we know that those who give receive back? There are those who give because it pleases them to please others so all the effect of giving is through our own selfishness. Not a wrong thing, not at all, just sounds bad when it is said out loud. Selfishness in the sense of self first is one thing that keeps us alive. For those who do not find self first, you do not know but you are hurting others. By not putting yourself first, you are putting a debt that is unclear-able until you allow your selfishness. If you do not put yourself first, you cannot be a part of what you want; family, friends, even co-worker.
Let's say this;
A mother must chose from slowly starving herself and her four infant kids or starve herself and let her four kids live healthy and hunger free. By doing the second she risk losing all her kids because if she starves to death, then her kids will not be able to be cared for.
We must be selfish even a little for the better of humanity.
Let's say this;
A mother must chose from slowly starving herself and her four infant kids or starve herself and let her four kids live healthy and hunger free. By doing the second she risk losing all her kids because if she starves to death, then her kids will not be able to be cared for.
We must be selfish even a little for the better of humanity.
heii. :D
ReplyDeletethank you soo much. :)
it´s a blackberry in the nature. ;)
greets.
Monika