Battle To Conquer The Pearly Whites

One cannot buy the pearly whites, as the pearly whites last longer from what and/ or how one make it.

All men search for the pearly white as some point inf their life. What it means is greater than what one has, no matter how little or large one has.

Those who think that things will give them pearly whites do not realize that it is not the things you have that give you pearlies but with whom you share those things. Making someone else happy makes us happy.

The pearly whites do not just come, they need to be worked for, whether it is time, efforts, or things loss, something is got to give to get. We cannot obtain and keep everything, we must give to get.

Give, give, and give, and you shall get all the pearly whites moneys cannot buy

If... The Pondering Constraints to Condition

"What if, while you are not speaking to him, he dies. Won't you regret it for the rest of your life?"

"Someone is going through a life threatening event, think of how bad your situation is"

"You think what you are going through is bad? Trust that someone is going through worse"

I live my life in the "constraints to conditions." Every time something is going wrong in my life, I then look at life somewhat the same as the above -in quotations. That is what helps me believe that maybe what is thought to be a problem is not actually a problem but a unnecessary headaches I have brought to myself. 

Believing as I do keeps me going for as long as my legs can carry all of the weight of my "unnecessary headaches" can take me. Then I must get away from these constraints to conditions and live the opposite for sometime. This is my rest and possibly my chance to resolve the problems that time did not resolve.

Many, and I mean most people of this world live their lives free of constraints to conditions up until they are forced or realize that it is time to fall into it. Those that do so are lucky, in my eyes, for their are free to hate, dislike, stand for their own, and push past up until they can no longer. I on the other hand, will find reasoning not to live in the negative emotion which is just as damaging, maybe worst,  as living in the emotion. 

When then people try to push constraints to condition upon me, and I tell them that I have been doing so and that is what helped me stay this strong, they continue to push it on me as if they do not understand me. Maybe they do not because in their mind, that is not how it is done, yet they live in negative matter (emotions) in which I learned growing up that I cannot live in so because my childhood was filled with negative reinforcements. I learned then that one must either be happy or sad; it is up to one. No one can live not pondering constraints to conditions and no one can live always pondering constraint to conditions. From those who do so, they must break from it and from those who do not must use it to break from their emotions. it is a balance that is needed; the break.

Today I give you: Death in Tehran

Death in Tehran: a story of fear

A rich and mighty Persian once walked in his garden with one of his servants. The servant cried that he had just encountered Death, who had threatened him. He begged his master to give him his fastest horse so that he could make haste and flee to Teheran, which he could reach that same evening. The master consented and the servant galloped off on the horse. On returning to his house the master himself met Death, and questioned him, “Why did you terrify and threaten my servant?” “I did not threaten him; I only showed surprise in still finding him here when I planned to meet him tonight in Teheran,” said Death.


By: Viktor E. Frankl  Man's Search for Meaning [A great book]

Buried Secrets

The secrets you hide from others are secret you will like to bury yourself. After some time those secrets will not stay buried and one will find (self) hiding from it. Then one will start to lie to (self) so that what's not in the mind is not real [One would believe to self].

"Those who have many secrets cannot be trust by other and thus cannot trust themselves." After all, are we not a reflection of people we are around? 

Living in Midst of Death

We are not the murderer of the murdered nor the killers of the passers. We are man, who died a little, because a part of us has been taken from us. Though you are mother, father, sister, brother. We have mothers, fathers, sisters, and brothers. When one is lost, is it not all of us, who has experience the person, whom have lost too? Even those who have no knowledge of the passer lose for they have not experience something great or something not so great but someone they can learn from?. Then why tell us we do not understand? Why make it as if you are the only one who has lost? You have lost the most, and that is known. Why spread enough tears to drown us all in? why blame yourself or the world for what the world itself do not have a hand in? Why die, when you are still alive?

Spoiled Cherries

Those who have not lost that of what is important in being a young adult and an adult are those who lose self to control. Those without self control are those with destructive personalities; those who stand too firm or too against something that there is little space for compromise or [true] open mindedness.

The Truth of Age

If we wipe ourselves from all that we grew up learning, would we not find errors, and in finding those errors, would we not have made our way from our bad habits? Our prejudice/ biased? Our way from the bad things we have learned? 

Your Shares

Why do all those things seem important? Why are we working so hard to show other how better we are than they are? If we are as intelligent of being we think we are, would we not want what we have for the world? For as much equality as possible? So why don't we put the need to show others that we are superior to them away and focus on enjoying/ living life. Sharing life

Powers of Internals

I read something on people choosing to opt out of life when thing are difficult. I then ask myself how many people did I ever hear that decided to opt out when things were too easy; when life was great and full of joy. Obviously someone who does so will be labeled crazy (insane) but I cannot help but realize how selfish we really are in life. We do things according to when it benefits us, not too often do we do things because it is the right thing or because its just to do so. We are many time patient and nice people when we benefit (when it makes us feel good to be nice and patient). 

In this you can find the greatest argument about man and God. If there were no God, would one (people) still be kind to others? If there were no Heaven, what would be our motivation to be just/ kind and such?

Argument on being a kind person. Can we say that someone who is nice to others benefit from this simply by the good feeling they get from being kind? Does that mean, he/ she has obtained their rewards? It could, but it's not good to look at it in that way....

Learn to be good for you (without any outside forces) and we can stop living like children awaiting reward of candy and get what is much better; internal rewards.

The Artificial Feeling of...

The artificial feeling involved in daily love has no presence in the reality we are currently holding. It is un-explainable, the meaning of L O V E. If it's not chemical reaction, then it must be wired reactions telling us that we must not linger single. Tinkle warm feeling that passes through us as we find this thing called love. Lonely feeble man wish they never gave theirs up because learning to love is not the same as loving to learn. Those who want to love fail before those who run as far as their feet can bring them. But your feet can only bring you so far and then you see those who first failed being carries by more than just their feet

Telling Someone

How do you tell someone something they do not care to know? It is easy to see what others do wrong and most difficult to see what you (yourself) do wrong. How do you tell yourself something you do not want to hear? Figuring it out for yourself means, you may be able figure it out for someone else.

More Than Just US

Where do we come from? in science, microorganism that continued to mutate until it reached the current final product. Does that mean that we are going to have more changes? From microorganism to the current state, how long could it have taken to reach human being? And how long have we been human beings?

Where do we come from? in religion, A super-being that we call God created us. He first created man, then women to accompany. Does that mean that He, that we call God, will ever reveal Himself to us and bless us with the knowledge as to why there is life? And what is the purpose of all this.

Either way, weather it is God or science, there is more than just us. Compared to the tiny globe are millions of other planets, those of which are greater in size and smaller in size than planet Earth. There have to be billions of mammal, billions of insects, and billions of all types of animals. How is it that all that there is in life is cooped up into this place called earth.

There must be smaller being out there, even dumber beings. But there must be beings. Just think a world of know that there is much more than ourselves.

Animal Souls

Do animals have souls? This question has left me and many others puzzled. Some people believe that dogs, cats, and certain other animals have a soul but why them and not others? Are we using intelligence in determination of a soul? Why pets or animals that we consider to have some intelligence have souls and those we do not know of don't? How about cows and chickens? all those animals we consume? It's hard to think of them as having a soul because then we come to realization that we are killing things "living" in a state; things in a state. What about those who kill and eat other people? Do they think that the people they are killing have a soul? Insects? We step on them because we don't want them around and are freaked out by them.

So what does a thing have to have to have a soul? What is the meaning of having a soul? For example a soul would be seen as a man entering a ship and bringing the ship to live. When then man is out of the ship, the ship cease to live. So when we die what keeps us dead? Why can we get the same types of injuries and some die and some other continue to live?

Enforcing in Surrounding

we are shaping ourselves based on the people we are around. Do you see a total turnaround based on the people you are around? Maybe it's your voice that change or maybe your attitude, we do change based on our surrounding. If our surrounding is filled with violence, you are in danger of being somewhat violent whether in attitude or in physical. On a positive note, if ones significant other do not know how to be in a relationship whether cheating is the issue or lack of emotions or even difficulties being a respectful partner, hanging out with another couple that one can idealize and therefor follow to a positive change... We are the people we are around.

No Regret

They say that one should not have regret but it is impossible for someone not to ever regret. How is it possible for someone to have absolutely no regret? That only means that they never thought if anything they ever did in their life could turn out differently; they never made a mistake. How is that possible? I believe in trying to make decision that will not lead to regret later but it is not possible, even when we have rationed well there is still too many chances left that we will regret.

There is no such thing as no regrets, there is just trying to not regret.

YOU DARE LOOK INTO...

Look into the shadows and you shall find the things that are hiding. Not everyone knows how to hide in plain site but every one's first thought is to hide in the dark. It is because no one likes looking in the dark. We want things to be out in the open; easy to see. If it is not easy to see, we wonder off into something that is easy to see.

We are distracted by the shadows because we fear to look into the unknown or maybe we are in fear of what we will find. Maybe we will find something we can not handle therefore lose our sleep or our sanity.

We are distracted by what we want them to want us to see and so we look past all the answers of shame, fear, love, hurt, careless, or sanity. We look past the things that can save us, save them, save someone from what is about to happen... We leave it all to later. Then we blame ourselves for not knowing and then we do it all over again.

STOP!!

The sign reads STOP - the red light means STOP

Close your eyes and think what you fear; the fear of wishing it wasn't known or the fear that it could not be understood. Now open your eyes and think how much you care and if you had that chance to cease the moment and clarify all that you already know and make sense of it... Then you have saved....

Battle of Lines

Wondering what is what. Finding you are motivated by many ideas and do not know which to first tackle. So I conspire again my imaginary obstacles. I made them my enemies and sought a way of getting by them without fighting them. How do I battle this imaginary lines that hold me hostage from my fulfillment without violence? How do I go as far as I've gone to stop at the line? Should I not go beyond? We battle with lines everyday how do we know which are to be stepped over and those that we must stay within?

All The Self in a Lonely world

We are falling pray to loneliness and living in a word where one should not feel alone. In a world with so many, why do any feel sole. We are becoming more and more self absorbed and that is what damages us and at time beyond repair. In order to survive dark days, we must find ourselves part of our communities, be neighbors, care for one another despite differences. We must find peace in ourselves therefore make peace with the world.

Who Cares

We try to impress people we don't like (by making them jealous). Try to impress people we don't know (by flaunting what they don't have). Try to impress people we love (by trying to make them jealous of us). The person that lives long with his hair longer than his life, his the person who really don't care about any of it; the person who is just motivated to live and be happy. He's the person no one really likes too much (because they are jealous). He is the person who lives "Who Cares."

I wasn't that bad...

When we do wrong, we often tell ourselves that it wasn't that bad or someone did worse. It is wrong to determine how bad what you did until you see and feel what it has done to someone. You are not the judge of how bad what you did is, others (and people you have hurt) are the one to determine.

Did you parents let you punish yourself based on the mistakes you made? Do the law lets you punish yourself based on your actions (that wen against the law)?

The idea is if you are sorry, then you must find the person/ people you have hurt and see and feel their pain. This will ensure that you will look for forgiveness (through them and not through self). Also that you will do your best to not let it happen again

The misunderstanding of understanding

We think we understand somethings while our action dictates otherwise. When we are at a loss or close to losing, we tend to then look into our problems and try to fix things that should have been fixed long ago. Our most disadvantage is falling to the false later idea. We put everything of to later and though we understand that there are chances that later may not come, we still live on later.

We are misunderstanding that we understand because there are problems that need to be fixed and saying that you understand and then put off, is saying that you don't really understand the value of the issues as it is  pertain. Why don't we fix issues now and not let it grow into bigger issues? What is so important that everything gets put off. Are we dealing with anything?

The misunderstanding of understanding is also claiming to understanding something but doing the opposite of what would fix the problem that you understood. Do you really understand or do you understand the idea but not important enough to see through.