"What if, while you are not speaking to him, he dies. Won't you regret it for the rest of your life?"
"Someone is going through a life threatening event, think of how bad your situation is"
"You think what you are going through is bad? Trust that someone is going through worse"
I live my life in the "constraints to conditions." Every time something is going wrong in my life, I then look at life somewhat the same as the above -in quotations. That is what helps me believe that maybe what is thought to be a problem is not actually a problem but a unnecessary headaches I have brought to myself.
Believing as I do keeps me going for as long as my legs can carry all of the weight of my "unnecessary headaches" can take me. Then I must get away from these constraints to conditions and live the opposite for sometime. This is my rest and possibly my chance to resolve the problems that time did not resolve.
Many, and I mean most people of this world live their lives free of constraints to conditions up until they are forced or realize that it is time to fall into it. Those that do so are lucky, in my eyes, for their are free to hate, dislike, stand for their own, and push past up until they can no longer. I on the other hand, will find reasoning not to live in the negative emotion which is just as damaging, maybe worst, as living in the emotion.
When then people try to push constraints to condition upon me, and I tell them that I have been doing so and that is what helped me stay this strong, they continue to push it on me as if they do not understand me. Maybe they do not because in their mind, that is not how it is done, yet they live in negative matter (emotions) in which I learned growing up that I cannot live in so because my childhood was filled with negative reinforcements. I learned then that one must either be happy or sad; it is up to one. No one can live not pondering constraints to conditions and no one can live always pondering constraint to conditions. From those who do so, they must break from it and from those who do not must use it to break from their emotions. it is a balance that is needed; the break.
"Someone is going through a life threatening event, think of how bad your situation is"
"You think what you are going through is bad? Trust that someone is going through worse"
I live my life in the "constraints to conditions." Every time something is going wrong in my life, I then look at life somewhat the same as the above -in quotations. That is what helps me believe that maybe what is thought to be a problem is not actually a problem but a unnecessary headaches I have brought to myself.
Believing as I do keeps me going for as long as my legs can carry all of the weight of my "unnecessary headaches" can take me. Then I must get away from these constraints to conditions and live the opposite for sometime. This is my rest and possibly my chance to resolve the problems that time did not resolve.
Many, and I mean most people of this world live their lives free of constraints to conditions up until they are forced or realize that it is time to fall into it. Those that do so are lucky, in my eyes, for their are free to hate, dislike, stand for their own, and push past up until they can no longer. I on the other hand, will find reasoning not to live in the negative emotion which is just as damaging, maybe worst, as living in the emotion.
When then people try to push constraints to condition upon me, and I tell them that I have been doing so and that is what helped me stay this strong, they continue to push it on me as if they do not understand me. Maybe they do not because in their mind, that is not how it is done, yet they live in negative matter (emotions) in which I learned growing up that I cannot live in so because my childhood was filled with negative reinforcements. I learned then that one must either be happy or sad; it is up to one. No one can live not pondering constraints to conditions and no one can live always pondering constraint to conditions. From those who do so, they must break from it and from those who do not must use it to break from their emotions. it is a balance that is needed; the break.
