Enforcing in Surrounding

we are shaping ourselves based on the people we are around. Do you see a total turnaround based on the people you are around? Maybe it's your voice that change or maybe your attitude, we do change based on our surrounding. If our surrounding is filled with violence, you are in danger of being somewhat violent whether in attitude or in physical. On a positive note, if ones significant other do not know how to be in a relationship whether cheating is the issue or lack of emotions or even difficulties being a respectful partner, hanging out with another couple that one can idealize and therefor follow to a positive change... We are the people we are around.

No Regret

They say that one should not have regret but it is impossible for someone not to ever regret. How is it possible for someone to have absolutely no regret? That only means that they never thought if anything they ever did in their life could turn out differently; they never made a mistake. How is that possible? I believe in trying to make decision that will not lead to regret later but it is not possible, even when we have rationed well there is still too many chances left that we will regret.

There is no such thing as no regrets, there is just trying to not regret.

YOU DARE LOOK INTO...

Look into the shadows and you shall find the things that are hiding. Not everyone knows how to hide in plain site but every one's first thought is to hide in the dark. It is because no one likes looking in the dark. We want things to be out in the open; easy to see. If it is not easy to see, we wonder off into something that is easy to see.

We are distracted by the shadows because we fear to look into the unknown or maybe we are in fear of what we will find. Maybe we will find something we can not handle therefore lose our sleep or our sanity.

We are distracted by what we want them to want us to see and so we look past all the answers of shame, fear, love, hurt, careless, or sanity. We look past the things that can save us, save them, save someone from what is about to happen... We leave it all to later. Then we blame ourselves for not knowing and then we do it all over again.

STOP!!

The sign reads STOP - the red light means STOP

Close your eyes and think what you fear; the fear of wishing it wasn't known or the fear that it could not be understood. Now open your eyes and think how much you care and if you had that chance to cease the moment and clarify all that you already know and make sense of it... Then you have saved....

Battle of Lines

Wondering what is what. Finding you are motivated by many ideas and do not know which to first tackle. So I conspire again my imaginary obstacles. I made them my enemies and sought a way of getting by them without fighting them. How do I battle this imaginary lines that hold me hostage from my fulfillment without violence? How do I go as far as I've gone to stop at the line? Should I not go beyond? We battle with lines everyday how do we know which are to be stepped over and those that we must stay within?